Monday, October 11, 2010

Why I'm going to Women of Faith in Sacramento


Used with permission (Thomas Nelson, Inc.)


It's no secret that the Women of Faith posse is rolling through Northern California in a few weeks. The WoF touring conference could perhaps be seen as the estrogen-enriched latent cousin to the Promise Keepers men’s rallies of the late 1990s. It's an opportunity for women (especially Christian women, and especially evangelical Christian women, perhaps) to gather together in a concentrated two days of hearing from some of the most gifted speakers and encouragers in the English-speaking world.

And I'm going.

So why am I crashing the ladies event? No, it's not to hold them accountable. Four reasons come to mind:

  1. Interaction. There will be Christians here from all sorts of groups. I'm down with that. Now, don’t get me wrong. I'm not an ecumenist, but I am ecumenical. The former would like to pretend that we have no differences and declare complete unity a present reality, which results in the detrimentally unfortunate inability to present our distinctives for the benefit of others. The latter says that we have nothing to lose--and much to gain--by meeting and dialoguing with each other.

    Actually, assuming my sister has her baby on time, I'll be bringing my mom with me to the event. That's an ecumenical gathering right there.


  2. Enrichment. Color me selfish. I learn from great people. Doesn't matter if they're male or female. I want to soak in all the awesomeness that comes from the teaching there. There are some fantastic women who will be speaking!

    Actually, for the record, I think they’re letting Andy Andrews at the podium this time, too. So there'll be at least one other guy there. Phew!


  3. Personal invitation. No, I don't mean salvifically (not directly, at least). I was invited to the event by one of the speakers. This is an act of kindness and friendship. And I'm all about cultivating the future of the Church through the establishment and maintenance of meaningful personal relationships. This is one opportunity I really wouldn't want to pass up.


  4. Growth. I love women. No, really, I do. And by that I mean that I love interacting with them for a couple reasons. One is their inherent emotional sensitivity that directs me to articulate issues that would otherwise lie dormant and unaddressed perhaps forever. Another is that they inspire me to think new thoughts. I've had the fortune of being influenced by a number of amazing women. My mother. My wife. My younger sister. Teachers, leaders, authors, artists, colleagues, friends. I owe it to them to keep soaking it in, filtering it, and repackaging it for others to absorb. I've been shaped, and I'm not done being shaped. There's an ongoing dynamic.


Want to go to the conference?

I think you should, especially if you're in one of the following three categories:

  • Women who have been have been going through hell for the past months or years and need a reminder that there is a reality that promises them hope and a future, but also present blessings;


  • Women who need a jump-start and a reminder of how powerful and empowering and transformative their relationship with God can be;


  • Women who have it all together (or at least think they do) and are looking for an avenue to pass on that joy to other women.


I guess that covers just about everyone, really.

Except the guys.

Click here to register for a Women of Faith event for the 2010-2011 season, or to learn more.


Question: Have you attended a Women of Faith event in the past? How did it enrich you? What are you looking forward to for the upcoming conference?

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You know, I've never thought of attending a ladies' event. Hmm... Well, hope it's good for you!
1 reply · active 755 weeks ago
LOL @ Matt.

I used to go with my wife every summer to the annual Mary Kay, Inc., conference. (She was a Director with them for a couple years.)

It was truly a highlight of my year. I learned more about goalsetting and being proactive from those ladies than I ever did anywhere else.

I'm kinda assuming this will have a similar mood. There's an amazing productive benefit to raw honesty, and I don't get a lot of that at men's events.

"Oh, look...Mike is crying. He must have had an epiphany about how to be a better husband and father."

"No, he and Fred are talking about the 49ers being oh and five."
Favorite quote: "I love women. No, I really do." >> Great post, dude. Maybe when you get back from the conference you and I could get a pedicure?
2 replies · active 755 weeks ago
Way ahead of you there, buddy. I...uh..."can't find" the pics I took to prove it, but man, when they slather your lower legs with that peppermint oil lotion stuff? Ooh yeah, that's da BOM!

Course, we could just go get our hair done instead...
http://twitpic.com/ou6xc

[Slight in-joke prompted by conversation with Gail Hyatt about a year ago.]
Mary Graham and Sheila Walsh made it possible for me to attend my first WOF conference in April. To sit in an arena with thousands of women who share your pain, ideals, issues, secrets, is liberating. To know that you aren't alone, that other people can identify with you, that the same things can happen to famous people makes it easier to get past your baggage and move on to the good God has in store.
In a room full of strangers, I felt loved. I was accepted. No one cared about my past.
Without thinking twice, I recommend this conference for women. All women. And if you are a man who loves a woman, I will suggest you go too. WOF can offer a lot of insight into how the minds and hearts of women work.
1 reply · active 755 weeks ago
Wow, Cassie. I'm glad you had that positive of an experience!

I'm so looking forward to meeting Mary.

And yes, I imagine this is one conference where you're going to hear quite a few famous women talk about the baggage they *used* to carry without ever once mentioning Gucci.
Very interesting. I think it's great you're going. :) I've yet to attend an event, but I'd like to soon. :)
1 reply · active 755 weeks ago
Hi Melissa! I'm not sure if I've ever noticed where you're located, but you can click the Women of Faith link in the post above and find out when the next event is closest to you.
I began reading this with one eyebrow raised at a steep slant.....

I wasn't completely sold until #3. That made it ok. I was a little concerned about you if you were just going by yourself!

Why? Everyone tells me it's weird that I can go to a movie by myself and that it's not normal. So I just assumed that the same would apply here.

Do I have a point? Absolutely not. Have fun dude!
3 replies · active 754 weeks ago
I think there's a veiled warning in there somewhere. Thanks, Aaron! :)

On the other hand, you're hardly the type to wear a veil...
I think there's a veiled compliment in there somewhere. Thanks, Jeff! :)

On the other hand, you're hardly the type to compliment a dude wearing a veil...
Oh, please! I would NEVER insult Moses! Even if the glory *was* fading.
Jeff,
One important lesson I learned by going to a WOF event is that they commandeer all the men restrooms. So watch out. I went in before a break and while I was doing my business a bunch of women just walked in. Awkward.

Tell Sheila, Mary and the ladies I said hello.
1 reply · active 728 weeks ago
Since ancient times, it has been a great mystery among malekind [to distinguish from the more general "mankind"] as to why women go to the bathroom in groups.

I fear that a woman of my acquaintance has outed the conspiracy and confessed the truth: they go to the bathroom in groups to have a private place where they can talk about us! That kinda makes sense.

Having said that, I meant to thank you for your advice. I sent Marcus Buckingham a Tweet before his first session suggesting that we go off in search of the lone men's room together. I wish I could say he took me up on the offer, but at least our reputations are still secure.

Also, a concerned security guard had posted himself at the entrance to the men's room. While I was in there, I could tell from the conversation he was having outside with two or three women that I should indeed be very grateful for his presence. So there's your solution: you need to leave your valet outside the door until you're done.

You do have a valet, right?

(Don't ever lose your valet. Cancelling your credit cards and getting a replacement driver license is a total pain.)

Sheila had excellent things to say about you. I only briefly talked to Mary. We never quite clicked for some reason, so didn't get as far as mutual name-dropping.

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